Decide on the purpose of communication
It makes no sense to go on talking with a Russian girl if you have no idea what you want to get as a result. The tactics of behavior are different in each case and depend on the goals: whether it is gaining experience of communication with the opposite sex or just a way to spend free time (have fun). Or purposeful communication for a further date invitation with the possibility of a relationship. The goal must always be kept in mind and achieved along the shortest path.
Suppose you wanted to ask a Russian lady out on a date but were so carried away by Internet communication that you forgot your goal. As a result, you spent an extra month wasting time on correspondence with a Russian girl, and when, finally, you invited her too late, she already started dating someone else.
Be energetic, emotional in moderation, cheerful, and friendly. A couple of jokes will never hurt. During communication, you should not:
- Whine, cry for life.
- Take offense. Offenses and curiosities in communication should be perceived as a joke.
- Gossip. It is necessary to exclude any «womanish» qualities in communication.
- Talk about the shortcomings of your ex-girlfriends. The girl will immediately realize, «Yeah, he speaks badly about his ex, in the future, he will speak like that about me.»
But you can talk about generous deeds in relation to the ex-girlfriend. Express your opinion, not in a rigid, but in a substantiated, supported by facts and not criticizing manner.
Post more good photos
Work on your online account and profile. Surround it with a halo of success, mystery, and intrigue. Post photos that will show you from the best side. Russian girls appreciate it.
- are in the company of a family;
- on a concert, performance;
- doing sports (snowboard, bicycle, football).
Make sure that a Russian lady does not perceive you as an egocentric person who is only concerned with himself and his own reputation.
- against the background of expensive cars;
- selfie at breakfast, lunch, and dinner;
Be an individual, have hobbies, interests, and read books. Develop, grow as a person. A Russian lady is unlikely to like a guy who does not know how to combine two words in one sentence. But your erudition can “hook” it.
What to Avoid When Communicating
Many people make the mistake of believing that http://www.datingranking.net/it/incontri-giapponesi/ rudeness is an indicator of confidence, but this is a false stereotype. Russian girls do not like it when a guy allows himself to behave aggressively and overall be rude around them. In reality, a guy with such behavior is perceived more like a hooligan than an alpha male.
If a Russian girl does not want to communicate, there is no point in insisting. There is no need to “pry out” information from the girl, dont put pressure on her. Such emotional abuse will scare the girl away. Let a Russian girl have her personal space.
Do not make mistakes in your messages. Your literacy is an indicator of intelligence. At the same time, do not point out the mistakes of a woman.
Everyone is fed up with the standard expression type, «Hello, how are you?» What are you doing?» Better start developing a topic of conversation based on her hobbies, interests. For example, “Hello! I noticed that you like [actor’s name]. And soon a movie with him will be released on cinema screens, let’s go?”
Emoticons should be in place. A large number of smiles in each sentence makes you think about the adequacy of the guy.